
The gentle floral notes of lavender paired with creamy milk create a drink that's both comforting and sophisticated. After perfecting this recipe, I've found that the key lies in balancing the delicate lavender flavor without letting it become overpowering - no one wants their tea tasting like soap!
Last night, I served this to my friend who was feeling stressed about work. By the end of her cup, she was noticeably more relaxed and asked for the recipe. The secret? Using just the right amount of culinary lavender and not over-steeping.
Essential Ingredients
- Culinary lavender: Must be food-grade, not decorative or craft lavender. I source mine from a local herb farm
- Quality milk: Whether dairy or plant-based, use fresh, high-quality milk for the best results
- Pure honey: Local raw honey adds subtle floral notes that complement the lavender
- Filtered water: Clean-tasting water makes a difference in the final flavor

Each time I make this tea, I'm reminded of the lavender fields I visited in Provence. The aroma alone creates a sense of calm.
Detailed Instructions
- Prepare the Lavender Infusion:
- Bring water just to a boil. Remove from heat immediately. Add lavender buds to hot water. Cover and let steep for exactly 5 minutes. Watch the color develop to a light purple.
- Perfect the Milk:
- Heat milk slowly over medium-low heat. Stir occasionally to prevent skin forming. Look for small bubbles around the edges. Remove from heat before it boils.
- Combine with Care:
- Strain lavender tea through fine-mesh strainer. Press gently on buds to extract flavor. Add warm milk gradually while stirring. Incorporate honey while mixture is warm. Taste and adjust sweetness.
- Serve with Style:
- Pour into warmed cups for hot tea. For iced version, chill rapidly over ice. Garnish with a tiny sprig of fresh lavender. Add a twist of lemon if desired.
My first attempt at lavender milk tea was a disaster - I used decorative lavender and it tasted like perfume. Now, after much experimentation, I've learned that quality ingredients and careful timing make all the difference.
Temperature Matters
The key to perfect lavender milk tea lies in the water temperature. Too hot, and the lavender becomes bitter; too cool, and you won't extract enough flavor. I've found that letting the water cool for about 30 seconds after boiling creates the perfect temperature.
Make-Ahead Options
You can prepare a concentrated lavender infusion and store it in the refrigerator for up to three days. When ready to serve, simply combine with warm milk and sweetener.
Serving Suggestions
Pair this soothing tea with:
- Light shortbread cookies
- Lemon scones
- Fresh berries
- Honey drizzle
This tea has become my evening ritual, a moment of calm in busy days. Friends now request it whenever they visit, especially during stressful times.
Final Thoughts
Lavender Milk Tea is more than just a beverage - it's a moment of tranquility in a cup. The combination of soothing lavender and creamy milk creates something truly special. Whether you're winding down for the evening or sharing a peaceful moment with friends, this tea offers both comfort and elegance. Remember, the key to perfect lavender milk tea lies in quality ingredients and careful preparation.

Frequently Asked Questions
- → What type of lavender should I use?
- Use dried culinary lavender specifically, as ornamental lavender can be too strong and bitter.
- → Can I use any type of milk?
- Yes, you can use any milk including dairy, almond, soy, or oat milk.
- → How long does lavender milk tea last?
- Best enjoyed fresh, but can be stored refrigerated for up to 24 hours.
- → Can I make this caffeine-free?
- Yes, this recipe is naturally caffeine-free as it uses only lavender.
- → Why should I avoid boiling the milk?
- Boiling can change milk's texture and create a skin on top - gentle heating preserves smoothness.